Two things to know before your first meal. Portions are larger than you expect. And a shot of rakija will appear before you've ordered anything, as a welcome rather than a drinks order.

Beyond that, Serbian cooking is refreshingly straightforward: meat over fire, good bread, vegetables that taste of something, and no interest whatsoever in presentation.

The things you'll see on every menu

Rakija, and how to handle it

Rakija is fruit brandy, usually plum (šljivovica), often homemade, and considerably stronger than it tastes. It appears at the beginning of meals, at the end of meals, on arrival at someone's house, and at departure from it.

Declining is possible, and the honest reasons work best — driving, medication, or "I've just had oral surgery" — because a vague refusal will be treated as shyness to be overcome. If you're on antibiotics or painkillers after dental work, say so plainly. Nobody will push.

If you're mid-treatment: alcohol interferes with healing and with several medications you may have been given. This is not the week for it, however friendly the offer. Say why and it stops being awkward instantly.

What to order when you can't chew

This is the part every other Serbian food guide leaves out, and it's the one that matters if you're here for dental work. After an extraction or implant placement you'll want soft food for several days. Fortunately, the local kitchen is well set up for it:

Ask, and you'll be looked after. "I've had dental surgery, I need something soft" is a request Serbian restaurant staff respond to with immediate concern and probably an extra portion of something. Being fussed over is part of the culture, and it's not a bad week to experience it.

Where to eat around Kraljevo

Places locals go rather than places that advertise to visitors:

Two habits worth adopting

First, meals are slow. A restaurant that hasn't brought your bill isn't ignoring you — leaving people at a table is politeness, and you ask when you're ready. Second, coffee is an event rather than a transaction. Ordering one buys you an afternoon in the chair if you want it, and nobody will hurry you along.

The short version: ćevapi first, ajvar on everything, kajmak at least once. Say no to rakija honestly if you need to. And if you're between appointments and chewing hurts, ask for čorba — it's the answer to almost everything here.